The dress code for the event is Hawaii-Style Formal attire. No, you are not old and out of touch with current trends, this dress code was completely made up by the couple to set the stage for a fun-filled evening. Their definition of Hawaii-Style Formal attire requires guests to dress in colorful semi-formal dress wear. For men, the couple kindly asks that you wear slacks with a jacket (black okay) and include a colored shirt. (For purposes of this dress code, black is not "color"). Tie is optional. Please no jeans and aloha shirt under your jacket. In other words, no Downtown Honolulu/local government men's attire. Kidding for those of you who work in downtown, but in all seriousness, no denim and aloha shirt please. For women, the couple kindly asks that you wear cocktail attire (dress/skirt/pant) with color, again please no aloha attire, sorry all of you Fighting Eel and Manu fans. This is year 2025 so no panty hose is required.

The answer in short is no. Nothing more, just no. All jokes aside, the couple would love to include everyone, but had the daunting task of limiting their number of guests per hotel and fire code rules and regulations (i.e. the couple does not have discretion over this issue). Fortunately, you were included; unfortunately, a date for you was not if he/she was not named on your invitation. The number of “guests” on your RSVP card indicates the total number of seats we have reserved for you.

Please see: "Can I bring a date?" The same terms and conditions apply. The couple thanks you in advance for your understanding.

Parking for this event is available at the Kahala Hotel with options to self park your vehicle or park using the hotel's valet service. Validation will be available upon check in to the reception.

If you have specific food allergies and/or dietary restrictions and would like to inquire about the menu, please let the couple know through this website or eat before you come to the reception.

The couple has a strict NO PHONE policy that will be in place during the entire ceremony. Failure to comply with this policy may result in your liability to be financially responsible for the couple's photography expense should you be found in violation of said policy. Your attendance at the ceremony is your agreement to adhere strictly to this no phone policy. This policy applies to those seated in the chairs arranged on the lawn at the ceremony. If you believe this provision is not enforceable, do not contact the bride. Contact Derek R. Kobayashi, Esq. (a partner at the bride’s law firm) who may be open to defending you against such claim.

Your invitation only includes an invitation to attend the event. It does not include any travel or stay accommodations hosted by the couple by way of express or implied invitation. (This disclaimer is posted mainly for Gen Z or anyone who thinks like a Gen Z).

Yes. A verbal RSVP is not a substitute for confirming your attendance. The couple neither has the time nor bandwidth to receive or recall verbal RSVPs hence the implementation of their website. Please do not set the couple up for failure by expecting them to rely on your verbal RSVP. They thank you in advance for your cooperation.

 While your presence is the greatest gift, if you wish to contribute further, we would be grateful for a cash gift to help us start our new life together.